Tag Archives: topping

Finding My Inner Top

I’ve been exploring my inner top lately. My inner top is where I get to explore my masculine animal. While I definitely believe that I can also be a masculine sub, top space is where I get to play with my domineering, controlling self. This head space hasn’t always been natural for me. I remember […]

Presence and Letting Go

“I teach this stuff, why do I continue to do what I teach not to do?” Because I’m human. I’ve been aware the last few days of the need to let go of expectations around sex and just be present. I’ve spent much time trying to unlearn the performance/goal oriented model of sex that most […]

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