Awaken Your Body
Could your solo sexual practice use some juice? Do you find yourself going through the motions, but not really being satisfied?
Life is busy and full of interruptions. While we may be more connected than ever electronically, many are craving the need to better connect with ourselves. Sometimes we can feel so wrapped up in the visual stimulation – often what we’re seeing on the computer – that we’re not really savoring the sensations.
In this short workshop, we’ll practice how to slow things down and re-connect with your erotic self. We’ll practice being alive and simply experiencing each erotic moment. We’ll let go of expectations and outcomes and learn how to savor and be ecstatic in the moment.
When we were younger we learned how to pleasure ourselves as a child. Now we can learn how to pleasure ourselves as adults.
Erotic Self-Pleasure Ritual
You are invited to join a circle of men the third Monday of each month for two hours of erotic practice specifically focused on exploring the sacred and the profane around self love.
Generating and playing with erotic energy in a group is definitely different than doing it alone. For most guys, a supportive of erotic explorers can add to the experience, even if you’re a bit shy. Many men find that a group encourages each other to let go of preconceived notions and connect on a profound energetic level.
Most of us know ways to generate erotic energy. In this event you’ll find opportunities to take what you already know see new possibilities of to generate erotic energy. You’ll see how to regulate it, circulate it, focus it and transmit it.
Using a combination of group and individual activities, we will explore tantric self pleasure. We’ll begin by warming ourselves up to the energy of the space and our own eros by safely connecting with each other.
We’ll proceed into a self pleasure ritual to explore the connection between spirit and eros.
The doors will open at 6:30 and we will begin at 7:00. After some introductions, socialization and sharing we will proceed to create intentional sacred space by focusing our collective energies on breath, meditation and prayer. We will consciously remove our clothes and prepare our mind, body and spirit for self-pleasure.
After creating this sacred space we’ll each be free to explore our solo erotic energies as each of us feel called. There are no expectations and few rules. Each man is free to explore his own energies as he feels. This may look like quiet contemplation and witnessing. It may look calm, soft and meditative. It may also look primal, hard, noisy and sweaty. There is no correct path – all are honored.
This is not a sex party – it is an intentional solo experience. While watching and consensual touching is appropriate, coupling off or grouping up isn’t appropriate. This is a space to enjoy your body and witness and experience other men doing the same. There’s no need to shop around looking for someone to partner up with. We can learn that we are the source of our own erotic energy and experience generating that energy with within. When we realize that we generate our own erotic energy, we can transform our relationships and connections and learn to dance with others while playing with this energy. By sharing this space with each other while doing an activity so profound, I intend to foster a culture of celebration, non-competition, trust, compassion, connection, and exploration.
Feel free to bring any toys that will add to your pleasure. Please do not bring alcohol, drugs or poppers.
The ritual is a practice of using extended masturbation to bring joy, peace and pleasure into our body – sometimes referred to as Tantric Masturbation. If traditional masturbation is about the goal of ejaculation then Tantric masturbation is about maximizing your enjoyment of the journey. Traditional masturbation is primarily cock focused; tantric masturbation involves your entire body.
This is a practice – an opportunity to try something new. We’ll have the time to explore how much pleasure you can generate in your body! We’ll be starting consciously and involving the entire body. When we build arousal and pleasure slowly, many men find that we become capable of greatly expanding the pleasure we can experience! Many men have found that masturbation takes on a whole new dimension when we learn to unite the primal and the spiritual.
Some of us may choose to play with noise. When we allow raw, primal noise to present itself the experience becomes more like a celebration. Sound is a key part of sexual ecstasy. Because most of us are conditioned to be quiet during sex, few realize the potential power of sound to stimulate and regulate excitement. Using the sounds that naturally emanate from your body when we’re feeling pleasure is a great way to circulate energy and spread the pleasure all over.
For the men that choose to cum, our seed is directed into a center altar. Our semen will be honored and cherished. You are welcome to bring objects that you wish to add to the altar to have them baptized with our collective seed. I have found that conscious ejaculation onto objects has been very powerful and transformative for both me and the object.
Once we have reached our collective climax, there will be an opportunity to silently enjoy our energies. Staying with the energy rather than moving the mind and body to another activity can add to the power of the ritual. Once we have had time to collect ourselves, there will be an opportunity to share with the group.